We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.
W. Somerset Maugham (1874-1965)
it is true indeed. we are changing, so why can't we accept it when those we love changed too? i think maybe because we don't love them as much as we thought or supposed to. we love them with condition. me, myself sometimes questioned why they changed? why can't they stay the way they used to be? but i didn't realized that i've changed too.
i've been discussing with a friend about this. and we realized that feeling is something really special. it's a gift from Him to us. we can't force people to love us neither can we force ourself to love others. it comes naturally.
i believed that if we really love somebody, no matter how much they changed and no matter how long it'll took, the love will stay and will never fade away.
p/s: i just want a simple life. just go with the flow. can we actually go with the flow?