Saturday, September 05, 2009

the spell

taken from spell of the day:

We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.

W. Somerset Maugham (1874-1965)

it is true indeed. we are changing, so why can't we accept it when those we love changed too? i think maybe because we don't love them as much as we thought or supposed to. we love them with condition. me, myself sometimes questioned why they changed? why can't they stay the way they used to be? but i didn't realized that i've changed too.

i've been discussing with a friend about this. and we realized that feeling is something really special. it's a gift from Him to us. we can't force people to love us neither can we force ourself to love others. it comes naturally.

i believed that if we really love somebody, no matter how much they changed and no matter how long it'll took, the love will stay and will never fade away.

p/s: i just want a simple life. just go with the flow. can we actually go with the flow?

8 comments:

lim tong said...

of cos we could go along with the flow, unless if we choose to go against the flow (i lah orangnye), only God knows what will happen, i just hope it would be a happy ending.

BabyCrownz said...

actually i dont really understand how 'go with the flow' works. coz in the end we still have to make the decision kan.

Anonymous said...

just smile..

nooreen.rahman said...

u go girl! ;)

BabyCrownz said...

anonymous: just smile & wave. hehe

noreen: ala, nak view ut blog. bole? hehe

nooreen.rahman said...

babe, i da tukar link. hehe kat status ym i ade. blog lama tu da cacat.

lim tong said...

y izit each time when we're happy then the sadness will appear out of nowhere jus to ruin the moment?y must it always happen to me?

BabyCrownz said...

"without sadness, we will never know what is happiness. sadness come to remind us of happiness and to make sure that we appreciate it more when it appear next time."
although i personally can't fully accept it, but i think that's the truth..